Deciphering What Someone Wants
If they were more of an introvert and liked small groups of people, perhaps you don’t want an all out, public memorial service. Something small and intimate like an ash scattering with close family and friends is plenty.
It’s hard to go to dinner with someone and order for them if you don’t know what they want. It helps when you know that person well and their preferences are obvious to you. When someone in your family passes on, if you are the closest to them, everyone may turn to you to plan their funeral or cremation services in Chicago, IL. You knew them best so you should know what they want, right? While it doesn’t always work that way in these instances, after all, final services aren’t like ordering a mealthey haven’t done it before so you know what they wantyou are still on the spot and have to make decisions. Here are a few ways to help you decipher what your loved one would have wanted after they are gone.
Consider Their Personality
Sometimes, thinking about how the person acted and what they enjoyed is enough to point you in the right direction. If they were more of an introvert and liked small groups of people, perhaps you don’t want an all out, public memorial service. Something small and intimate like an ash scattering with close family and friends is plenty. On the other hand, if your loved one thrived on being around people and was always the life of the party, they’d appreciate anyone and everyone being at their memorial service.
Remember Their Comments
Perhaps you never addressed death directly, but chances are you attended a final service of some kind with your loved one. What did they say about it? Maybe they mentioned that it was a nice service, or they liked the pictures presented on a board in the back of the person who passed away. Try to remember anything they said, either positive or negative, about other services so you can use those comments to make plans of your own.
Consider Your Family
While final services are most definitely about the deceased, they’re also about the family members left behind. They’re the ones who will be attending the services and you want them to get the closure and the opportunity to say a final goodbye that they need to move on. What types of final services has your family had before? Would they work again? Consider their feelings as you move forward.
If you are ready to have cremation services in Chicago, IL for a loved one, whether you know exactly what you want to do yet or not, contact the professionals at Chicagoland Cremation Options by calling (773) 631-0018. We’re here to help you go over options and brainstorm ideas until you come up with something just right for your loved one and your family. You can visit with us in person at 9329 Byron St, Schiller Park, IL 60176 and we will offer your loved one the dignity and respect they deserve and you the compassion you need during this difficult time. We’re here for you in as many ways as you need us, and we’ll help you through.
